You should know that one night stand isn't always good
It's very exciting to know that you are about to get a one night stand. It also can be thrilling, stimulating, awkward and even sometimes weird. Such feelings can make your experience much more unforgettable and pleasant. For many, it can be a life-changing moment, but for others, it can be a nice memory that you want to remember in the future of your life. You might find many stimulators to make this experience much more promising. However, if you don't know the rules, the result might turn the exact opposite way.
Online one night hookup apps might make it more convenient for people to meet each other and get one night hookup. But they can also be dangerous. In order to have a nice and pleasant one night stand experience, here are some suggestions to help you.
Getting to know each other more before you go to the bedroom. The point of using online hookup apps is that you can get a hookup partner so easily and fastly. However, there are cons in relying on dating apps. Sometimes, it gets so easy and quick that you forget to get to know your potential hookup partner. Everything goes so smooth and fast.
All you care is whether this night is your lucky night or not that you forget to know what kind of person you are talking to. You can never tell a person based only on the appearance. You can only get to know a person by talking. Therefore, before you invite him/her to your place, talk more. It doesn't need to be meaningful conversation. The purpose is to observe his/her way of talk and body gesture. You can tell a lot from those moves.
Sometimes it's necessary to be a network spy just to make sure they are really the person they portry themselves to be and to make sure you are not going home with a rapist or a serial killer. Know their name and google them or search them in all kinds of social network. If they live in the 21st century, there must be some information left. If there isn't any, them you might question their authenticity. When a person refuse to tell you their real name, what good can it be? Jut be careful.
Do you have mutual friends? Why is this question so important? There are pros and cons of the negative and positive answers for this question. If you do have mutual friends, you might have bigger chance of exposure and future awkwardness to deal with because one day, you might bump into each other again. How are you going to face each other. However, having mutual friends ensure that they are real and you are safe with them. On the other hand, if you don't have mutual friends, you will have less chance to worry about the aftermath of having a one night hookup with them, but you do have bigger risk for your safety.
